wattup. i blog n shit. (Yo Tim, how do you manage to stay friend with your ex? We were dating for a few months and suddenly she said it was over because she was “exhausted and overwhelmed”. I wanted to stay friends with her but she never really gives me a chance. She’s acting like I don’t even exist!! Can you help a brothah out?)

hipstermatter asked: Yo Tim, how do you manage to stay friend with your ex? We were dating for a few months and suddenly she said it was over because she was "exhausted and overwhelmed". I wanted to stay friends with her but she never really gives me a chance. She's acting like I don't even exist!! Can you help a brothah out?

Answer:

eh.. well me and my ex were together for like 4 years bro, and we ended on really good terms. we both kinda knew that it was about time we called it quits, so it was easy for us to let go and move on. sounds to me like the chic you were with just kinda had a random change of heart, and for whatever reason doesnt wanna talk anymore.

i know, as a man, we need closure on certain situations, but girls like to just say WHATEVER and move on and pretend like nothing happened. there’s nothing you can do about that right now.

fuck it though, who cares! it was only a few months, and if she wants to miss out on the friendship then that’s her loss. you’re the one wearing the No Racial shirt so you’re obviously the cooler one. lol just forget her and find something better, homie.

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