Yo tim, im a 20 yr old cc student in cali thats never had a real gf and im not bad looking but I get like social anxiety and I have a bit of a problem really talking to people. I can be quiet even thou I don't mean to be. Any advice on how to change?
im not gonna write you an essay bro, but we all get a little social anxiety sometimes. college is a good place to help you fix that though, there’s mad clubs and frats and sports you can join filled with people who share the same interests and hobbies as you. just pick a club, bro! automatic homegirls that you can talk to without the pressure of a bar or club atmosphere.
and most importantly, fuck it! if you wanna meet someone, just talk! you’re not gonna see 90% of these people ever again in a few years! the last thing you want is to look back on what could possibly be some of the best years of your life with regrets on things you could have done or that girl you walked by every day that could have been the love of your life!
you said in one of your previous post that you were with your ex for four years and you said that you could never picture a future with her. well, why the hell did you stay with her for that long then?
Well we actually broke up about 3 times before it officially ended. As a guy in my first REAL relationship, it was difficult not to give in to tears.
There’s also that dilemma of when you’re with someone who isnt a “bad” girlfriend, but you just know it won’t work. How do you tell somebody that’s attractive, and that hasnt really done anything horribly wrong, that for whatever reason, you’d just rather not be with them?
So… I tried to focus on the good and ignore all the bad for as long as I could, pretending that maybe something would change even know though I knew it never would, until finally I think she saw things the same way I had been, and we went our separate ways!
I wouldn’t change it though. I learned a lot in that relationship about what I did wrong and what I didn’t like. We were young and immature and trying to force something that was never really there. I’m definitely a better boyfriend now because of what I learned about myself during those four years.
That’s why I try to tell yall, man, you can feel like you’re grown and mature, but you won’t really grow until you live and experience. That’s why I call you guys babies. I don’t care if you feel like you’re 50 years old on the inside. Until you’ve actually made those mistakes, you haven’t really learned and grown.
But it’s okay, you guys are all gonna get boyfriends and girlfriends in high school regardless of how much sense I make, and you’re gonna fight, and you’re gonna cry, and you’re gonna learn.. then you’re gonna tell you’re kids that they’re too young, and they won’t listen either.
The other night I was bored chilin in my hotel room so I felt like sending my girlfriend dick pics, but not like.. dirty ones, just funny flacid ones. So I had this bag of jelly beans, and I had my penis against my stomach, and the elastic on my boxerbriefs was kinda around my balls holding em up, so I put red jelly beans on each ball, and when I took the pic it looked like Squidward, we were cracking up.
Hey Tim, Question/rant! So my boyfriend that I love is more of a boobs guy and loves Katy Perry and Scarlett Johanson for their tits...however I have really small boobs. Do you think he doesnt like them??
I promise you that he loves your tits. When a guy loves a girl, all he really needs to be there is the nipples and he’ll be happy.
hi tim! im insecure about how i'm super skinny, but i love food! everybody loves how real i am with it, but... i cant seem to pull guys.. it seems like society wants a big booty or bust now a days, and i'm vietnamese, over here like, eh. wassup guys.. hi..... nothing special here..
hi! well my dearrr,
just like I told that girl wit the big butt, stop worrying about things you cant do anything about. if you’re a skinny chick, then love your skinny self and be proud of it! if you spend all this time picking yourself apart, you’ll never be happy. nobody’s perfect.
not sure how old you are, but trust me, physically, everyone has their type. guys are soooo horny! some dudes are like, “maaan I love a thick girl cuz they so soft and I like to see the jiggle” while other dudes are like “maaan she so sexy and tiny, I could probably pick her up and toss her around when we do it.” lol
but you look young, stop worryin about all that, your body’s still growing anyway!
I love how you just gave a girl advice on how guys look at her as a sex toy. Good job.
Do you look at girl’s asses as a window into their soul? Or maybe you see a booty and think “I’d like to read her ass a short story about Nietzsche’s philosophy on Perspectivism.”
She asked me about her ass and why’s boys dont like it. I told her why it’s nice and that she should love it. If a couple sex jokes kept you from understanding the underlying message, maybe you should get your super cool glasses checked.
Tim I'm Asian but I have a big butt,. I'm not fat but I'm definitely not skinny but I end up feeling so I secure about myself because it seems like all the guys go for the skinny ass people and now I feel like no one wants me cause my ass is big
Girl you crazy.
A cute Asian girl with a big butt is like… a unicorn.. that you wanna have sex with.
lol.. I don’t know where you’re from, but where I’m from big booties are definitely appreciated. ESPECIALLY when an Asian girl from around the way had booty it was like “WHAAAAT!!!!”
So don’t feel insecure, be proud of that juicy thang. Maybe boys dont like you cuz you stink! Do you stink? Sometimes girls stink, and they don’t realize it. lol
Seriously though, stop picking yourself apart cuz confidence is one of the sexiest things a girl can have. Whether your booty be big, small, soft, toned, jiggly, cellulitey, stretchmarky, (not stinky I hope) twerk that thing like you love it and a boy will want to put his face in it, I promise.
“Stop waiting for friday, for summer, for a boy to fall in love with you. Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make something of the moment you’re in right now.”—e-stablish (via e-stablish)